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Heartbreak is a pain like any other. It is an emotional pain so bottomless that it can feel like a physical blow. When you have a pain like this one, all you want is for the deep ache to go away. As much as I’d like to recommend differently, there is no band-aid for a broken heart. Though it sounds like clich?, time is the remedy needed for you to truly heal from such a deep, wrenching pain. In time, this pain will go away. Between now and then, however, following a few basic tips might be able to make the difference in how you
are feeling.

1. Cry: You are going to feel like rubbish for the first few weeks. Depending how emotional of a person you are, you may feel like crying for days. Go ahead. A significant change has occurred in your life; a painful change. There is no way to expect that you will feel a little sadness and be able to shut it off with a switch. It’s just not that simple. Allow yourself to grieve for your loss. But not too long! Staying in the past for too
long can only hurt you. See rule number 4.


2. Talk to Someone Close: Use the shoulder of someone who cares about you to get out your feelings. This is a way to purify your soul by letting someone to share your pain. Let them listen, comfort you, and offer advice. You don’t necessarily have to take that advice, but sharing this comfort can make you feel better. Make sure you only allow yourself to grieve and lean on someone for a time because you need to move forward.
3. Distract Yourself: Bring friends you care about back into your life. Maybe having the relationship was keeping you from spending time with your parents, or siblings. Maybe you hadn’t talked to your best friend in weeks. Surround yourself with this support network. Getting things that need to be done around the house done is a great way to get lost in a project. Go to the gym. Organize your closet. Get out and take a walk. Distracting yourself is a great stepping stone to moving on with your life. This brings us to rule number 4.

4. Look toward the Future; Forget the Past: Once you have allowed yourself the indulgence of grieving for a part of your life who is now past, look forward! There is a definite need to be able to start a new chapter in the book of your life. Now that you are past the sadness and anger, it is time for hope and renewal that will help you to move on. Take time out for yourself; get to know yourself as a single individual instead of as part of a couple. Replenish your soul by becoming you again.


Following these sometimes difficult, but necessary steps, you can begin to heal the broken pieces of your heart. You cannot only become whole again. You can become whatever you wish to become. This is a chance to start fresh, and once the pain starts to ease. You will see it as such an opportunity.
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without the word

I shouldn't have done that
I should've ignored it
Like something I could not see
Like something I cannot see


I shouldn't have ever looked at you
I should've ran away
I should've acted like I didn't hear
Like something I could not hear
Like something I cannot hear ah... yeah...
I shouldn't have listened to my heart at all



Without a word
You showed me what love is
Without a word
You gave me your love
You even made me hold my breath
Waiting for you
But you ran away like this
Without a word, you left me
Without a word, you threw me away
What should I say next?
My closed lips were surprised
Coming without words


Why does it hurt so much?
Why does it keep on hurting me?
Even though you're not here anymore
Though everything is the same
Without a word
You showed me love



Without a word
You gave me your love
You made me hold my breath
Waiting for you
But you run away like this
Without a word, you left me
Without a word you threw me away
What should I say next?
My closed lips were surprised
Without a word my tears fell
Without a word my heart breaks



Without a word, I will wait for your love
Without a word, I'm hurt because of love
I zone out
I became a fool
I cried as I look up at the sky
Without a word, goodbyes found me
Without a word, goodbyes came to me
I think my heart was surprised
I couldn't even prepare to send you away
Without a word it came
Without a word it went
Without a word it left
Like a fever before
I'll only hurt you for a while
And will only left you scars in the end


this song for some1 .. aku ta twu r .. cmner aku leyh jtoh cinta nan dye .. pdhl dye ta pena wt pape at aku .. m'ykt an atey aku der r .. haishh .. aku try tolak dye jao2 .. p makin aku tlak , makin dye dtg .. na kate dye ncem cmpi aku jtoh cinta , ta der r lark .. ncem agy W .. p tahh r .. mgkn cbb aku neyh jenis yg cpt na syg some1 kott .. mmg aku m'gaku .. aku cpt syg owg .. na2 owg cm dye .. ishh .. tahh r .. kdg2 prngai gler annoying gler ! cmpi kdg2 aku ase na sepak2 dye .. p dlm mcer yg sme , aku leyh jtoh cinta .. dye kai ubt gune2 kott .. and for sure , aku twu dye der owg laen .. even dye ta m'gaku .. yelaa .. ner der na ngaku law dye curang pown .. p aku wt bodo jer ! mls na amek twu .. and aku ta na jdk bodo d cbb lelaki cm2 .. kdg2 aku pk , wt per na pening2 cbb dye .. dye pown ta pena na amek twu sal aku an .. mgkn Tuhan na bls ats p'buatan aku at W .. W , i'm sorry .. tok dye , aku ta twu cmner aku leyh syg at ko .. and bnde neyh ttbe jer .. aku cndri ta mnx na jtoh cinta nan ko .. skunk , aku try tolak dye .. aku ta na jtoh at lelaki cm dye .. ckop r per yg aku der skunk ..
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